| Wednesday, 27 January 2010 |
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It's only halfway through January and already I'm seeing the first casualties of the annual diet war. If you signed up for that miraculous new weight loss phenomenon or have been existing on milkshakes or specially formulated meal bars and you're still in the running then though in my heart I'd love to shower you with congratulations my head shakes a firm 'no'. It'll all end in tears.
If we openly acknowledge that a magic bullet doesn't exist then why do we continue to look for it? The imagined pain of a lifestyle overhaul is so great that we continue to experience that rush of excitement with every new launch of a miracle drug. "What if someone has really cracked it this time? If all my excess weight could just melt away as I chill in front of the soaps? No harm in giving it a try...if it doesn't work then nothing will have changed. I'll start off fat and I'll end up fat".
"Why can't I DO this?" wailed one of my neighbours. "I run a family, a successful business and juggle everything so well. Except my weight. I feel permanently pulled every which way I'm seriously out of control and there's nothing I can do about it". This lady is in complete overwhelm and is constantly reacting to circumstances rather than anticipating outcomes and planning ahead. Let her share with you a typical week: on Mondays she eats virtually nothing to make up for the weekend overindulgence and after a poor sleep that evening (so hungry) is inevitably low on motivation and resolve by Tuesday. By late afternoon the cracks begin to show. Ferrying her youngsters around various activities means hanging around for half an hour in a leisure centre cafeteria. "You would not believe what I can put away during that time" she admits "and I don't even like the food there". Wednesday is spent in blind panic attempting to regain some control and a single slip on that day would "be terrifying as my weight could just spiral. Who knows how big I could become?".
I hear stories like this all the time. This lovely, capable lady is in reality only a little overweight. But her life is a constant battle against her terror of obesity. This is just the sort of person who turns depairingly towards the 'diet gurus' who promise incredible results in a matter of weeks or even days. Can't stick to it? Then it's YOU that's at fault.
In the US Dr. Barry Simon, a psychiatrist who specialises in weight loss says "We see people, chronic dieters, who have not been successful," he says. "The last thing they need is another diet. What they need is to regain a sense of being empowered and strategies to build on efficacy and strength."
"If you want to go on a two-week diet, don't call us," says Dr Simon.
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| Wednesday, 13 January 2010 |
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The recent cold snap in the UK has confirmed my suspicions about exercise. Snow might be disruptive and downright dangerous if not treated with respect but it does stir a sense of childish excitement within us. We want to play. When scores of grown men grab dustbin lids and hurtle with delight down icy slopes or (as witnessed in the road outside my house) attach a sheet of plastic by rope to the back of a van and enjoy a bumpy yet gleeful ride, we know there's something in it. We want fun and we want to play. In fact we're happy to put the time and thought into creating situations where we can have a ball. And that's where I think that governments, exercise advisory councils and anyone else with an interest in getting the nation fitter have got it wrong. Every year they dish out the same old advice. Treadmills, gyms and – perhaps the worst of all - home exercise DVDs. I can't imagine anything worse than leaping around my lounge every evening in the misguided belief that I will emerge in the Spring a svelter, fitter version of myself. I won't.
Let me take you on a journey. Imagine a crisp winter landscape cloaked in snow. Wrapped up warmly and pink-cheeked in the fresh, clean air all is silent except for the crunch of your footsteps and those of your companion. The scenery is stunning and you pick a particularly pretty spot to stop a while and – if this is your first foray into the great outdoors you probably take out a flask of homemade hot soup or similar. For seasoned walkers and for true satisfaction take out your tiny little stove, pan and mug. Just boiling up the milk will incite a deep feeling of contentment. It's back to an Enid Blyton childhood and an ongoing hankering for building dens. Add hot chocolate mix and mini marshmallows (yes, really – take them – they weigh nothing!) and crumble a Cadbury's flake on top. Then dare to tell me that this is not simply the best hot chocolate you've ever tasted. And the best experience you've had for a long, long time.
The thing abou! t such e xperiences is that we're eager to repeat them. We're motivated because of feelings. So when we grumble that we've no time to improve our health or can't be bothered to drag ourselves down to the gym then we need to ask what would we make time for? What could we be bothered to do?
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| Sunday, 10 January 2010 |
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It's expensiveIf you're one of those people who join a gym every January – dare you tot up how much you've spent to date? One set of statistics recently revealed that by the time a woman reaches her 40s she has spent on average a whopping £150,000 (yes!) on lapsed gym memberships, equipment, diets and weight loss products. Wow. It's smelly and stuffy Need I say more? You've been in there. It involves extra travel Lots of studies have shown that if you dare to venture home after work before a scheduled gym workout, then you're much less likely to drum up the motivation to turn up. If you chose an exercise such as jogging, cycling, power walking or Nordic Walking so you can launch out right from your front doorstep it's likely that you could have finished your workout before you've even stepped on to the treadmill. Lack of time is cited as one of the top reasons people fail to exercise – so don't add travel time to each end of your sessions. It's a circus Ever feel that some people like to well...show off in the gym? They do! It's their stage for the day to put on a Mr Universe act. Again. For the more self conscious amongst us – and for newcomers to exercise that's just about everybody – the gym environment can prove to be a regular ordeal. You miss out on a great mood boost There's nothing to beat the sheer exhiliration of getting out into the fresh air. Faced with a freezing, snowy day in Bournemouth today the temptation to stay behind closed doors was high. I opted for some computer work instead but felt sluggish and weary until I gave up and decided to put the icy temperatures to the test on an hours (slippery) walk. The effects on my general mood and sense of wellbeing were absolutely amazing. In my opinion this is the major area where the gym fails to deliver. It's less of a workout! Yes really. I know you can notch up the effort level on the cardio machines or add extra weights but nothing compares to the random nature of the workout offered in the outdoors. You have to deal with obstacles, changing weather, sudden inclines and descents. Far more challenging. It's boring You have the option of music or TV to entertain but you can't combine the gym with other interests. Go on a hike and watch out for the wildlife or budding photographers take your camera along. Play badminton or tennis and make exercise a part of your social life rather than leaving your socialising until after your lone workout. It's antisocial The sight of all those people locked in their own world not uttering a word to each other is rather sad. So in 2010, instead of doing what everyone else in the gym is doing, do something different. |
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| Wednesday, 6 January 2010 |
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Just spent a fantastic morning Nordic Walking through the New Forest amidst swirling snow and stunning scenery. At first glance it was a morning to huddle indoors and get up to date with all my computer work as I stepped out of the house to a deep grey sky and biting temperature but I'm so glad I didn't. Though many obviously did – the forest was as still and silent apart from the powdery crunch of my footsteps and the rhythmic dull sound of my walking poles as they pierced the snow through to the icy earth. This was the first time I'd Nordic Walked in snow and the poles were a boon. I went off at a steady lick with the poles propelling me forwards and, as always when I do this activity, my posture was superb. It has to be – it's impossible to stoop and Nordic Walk. Several hundred yards into my walk a hill loomed. Iced in layers of soft snow it looked beautiful..and decidedly slippery. However by planting my poles slightly farther forward and leaning a little towards the slope the ascent proved to be effortless. And as for descending the other side – a complete doddle with the poles as my extra 'legs'. As always when I'm in the great outdoors I began to think. What is there not to like about this? Granted the snow is an understandable deterrent but what about the spring and summer months? Why is it so hard to get people outdoors? I'm absolutely positive that most people who claim to loathe exercise have never tried this. It's now 4pm and I still feel invigorated. And because my mood was boosted earlier in the day my productivity has soared this afternoon. I've completed tasks at twice the speed and somehow my normal tendency to procrastinate has evaporated. And of course the more I get done, the more I feel inspired to tackle. Forward thinking companies take note; engage your staff in an hour's exercise before their day's work and it won't be an hour lost but a racing start to the day. Try it for a month and check productivity levels. So what's new about this you say? You've been hearing for years about the benefits of employee fitness initiatives. Maybe. But can you honestly say you've really done anything about it? And I don't mean reduced gym memberships and medical check ups for your staff. An hour of power each morning; power walking, Nordic walking, just...walking...and sharing, socialising and spirit boosting. Something else got me thinking...Is it cheating to make a resolution that, although it is very good for your health, you just know you're gonna love? There's a high chance of you keeping it up but is it in the spirit of a New Year's resolution? Aren't they supposed to be be based around something you'd rather avoid doing? Maybe. But I'm making it anyway... So that's me - Snow Nordic walking at every opportunity this winter. It's great for your taste buds too – a hot chocolate has never tasted so good. |
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| Sunday, 3 January 2010 |
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As we edge further into 2010 I'm sure that like most people you are highly charged with motivation to stay on track with those resolutions you made a couple of days ago. And well done, you! I just want to step in here and suggest that now you've made the first step in deciding exactly what you'd like to change/achieve/attempt this coming year now you must run those aspirations through the 'habit test'. If you do this and your goal (whatever it may be) passes with flying colours, then you're HIGHLY likely to achieve it. Ready?1. Accept that you will improve in the area of your goal as much as you possibly can but don't aim for perfection. It doesn't exist. Strive for a faultless route to your goals and you are guaranteed to fail. Let's take weight loss. I've met lots and lots of people who have successfully lost weight but not one of them got there without a few slips and setbacks along the way. You will get there despite falling off the wagon. 2. How many things are you trying to change at once? Habit busting is tough (but far from impossible) so your best course of action is to take a good look at the situation you want to change or bring about and decide what one thing could you start or stop doing that would immediately make the biggest difference. Using our example of weight loss what is the main obstacle hampering your efforts? Is it constant grazing, total lack of exercise, too much alcohol or something else? Whatever it is start with that. Then once you've managed to cut down on the wine or beer, for example, you can then tackle the next habit of failing to exercise (and it is only a habit). 3. Let's say you've decided to cut right down on those alcohol units. What are you going to do instead at the times you would normally reach for the corkscrew or drop into your local? Whatever you do, don't leave a void. You could stock up on juices or alcohol free varieties of your favourite tipple and have these instead or plan to do something completely different at these times. Make sure it's something to look forward to though so you don't begin to see it as some form of punishment! 4. Enjoy the process. Although planning an attempt at weight loss can appear terrifying with the all too common fear of failure you can still make it as painless as you possibly can. If you have decided to embark on a brand new jogging programme and you know from past experience that you hate running then why do you imagine it will be any different this time around? It won't. Choose something else. If it's being outdoors that appeals how about cycling, power walking or the fabulous Nordic Walking (more about that in my next blogpost). 5. Finally it's so important to keep going long enough and often enough to make the new habit just that – your new habit! The definition of a habit is 'A recurrent pattern of behaviour that is acquired through frequent repetition'. Personally, I have found that 21 days is enough to begin to see results but be prepared for your new pattern of desired behaviour to take up to 3 months to really become part of the new you. Make sure your resolution fits in with all five of these conditions and success won't be far away. Good luck and Happy New You! |
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| Sunday, 13 December 2009 |
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Let me ask you a question. When you successfully achieve your weight loss goal (and I know that losing weight is not the difficult bit) what should you do next? Celebrate? Buy a whole new wardrobe or book a holiday? Of course, it's very important to reward yourself on your impressive accomplishment and I would be the first to encourage you to do so. However, the most crucial action that you must take next is to set yourself another goal. People who do this are much more likely to successfully maintain their new, slimmer figure. The end of the diet is a dangerous place. Perhaps you could now train for a 5K fun race or aim to secure a new job or learn a whole new skill. The nature of the goal is not too important - the value lies in the fact that you are creating something new to strive towards. A new purpose.
Of course, if you failed to address the habits and behaviours that caused you to gain weight in the first pace then they will be lurking beneath the surface ready to sabotage all your efforts. Whilst these behaviours ought to be well and truly quashed at the outset of your weight loss programme it's never too late to get to grips with them so your new goal could simply be to identify your top 3 self defeating habits and to put plans in place to conquer them once and for all.
But what if you can vividly remember the arrival of January 1st year after tear and with it comes the realisation that, yet again, you didn't quite succeed with your weight loss goal? Then it's time to revise your goal. Remember - if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got. So if every January 2nd sees you newly kitted out at the gym then it's time to acknowledge that as a way to achieve your goal, the gym simply doesn't do it for you. How could you approach it differently this time around? You could follow one of the hundreds of healthy eating plans online and how about designing for yourself a walking for weight loss programme? Again, there's plenty of advice to be had at the click of a button. Just do something different.
If you do regularly fall short of reaching your goals then understanding why you want to achieve them will greatly improve your chances of success. Ensure that your goal to lose weight is your own i.e. that you're not losing weight because someone else thinks that you should. Even if that person is your doctor, you must dig deep and find your own 'whys'.
Mid December is a great time to be mentally preparing for the new year. Many folks declare that it's ludicrous to allow the dawning of a simple day in the calendar (January 1st) to be such a big deal. I personally think that revising our lives is a powerful and positive action and the dawning of a whole fresh new year does seem to provide us with the perfect opportunity for a shake up. Won't you even admit to feeling a vague stirring of excitement by the huge sense of potential offered to us by each approaching new year? Grasp the opportunity this week BEFORE the chaos of the festivities descends - Happy goal setting! |
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| Wednesday, 2 December 2009 |
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I'll be the first to admit that I was skeptical. I first heard about the arrival of Nordic Walking in the UK several years ago but - with only the barest information - I didn't really envisage myself having a go. Now I have and I'm suitably impressed. I cannot think of another activity that ticks so many boxes; increased calorie burn, less perceived exertion, more joint-friendly and open to all. It's god's own keep fit activity. All for the price of a pair of poles and a sturdy pair of trainers. The sport has crept in relatively unnoticed and is now gaining ground apace.An angry sky promised rain to come as I drove up for my Nordic Walking initiation. I was cold, tired and hungry after a long drive and more inclined to curl my fingers around a hot chocolate rather than a pair of poles. Half an hour later our large group was snaking along the Thames path and I was beginning to enjoy myself. It's the mood-boosting outdoors-never fails. You simply cannot Nordic walk with poor posture and the pole propulsion is quite remarkable. Lift up the poles and you experience a definite deceleration. I was working hard and was ravenous so without doubt burning off lots of calories. Throw in a few pole stretches, resistance exercises and Nordic circuits and the potential benefits to a wide range of people are evident. There's also Nordic boot camps, hill walking, jogging and bounding which is an odd mixture of hopping and skiing. The possibilities are seemingly endless. In fact, I'll wager that Nordic barbie is on the drawing board at this very moment. I met a spritely group of four senior ladies strapping on their Nordic poles. Having struggled for years to lose weight they claimed to have lost a total of twenty pounds betwwen them since taking up Nordic walking and believed that the key to this success was altered focus. "Whereas in the past I'd be pre-occupied with and hell bent on losing half a stone, now that is secondary to my main motivation which is the sheer enjoyment and sociability of the activity. I can do this. I look forward to it as a chance to catch up with my friends in the great outdoors. The fact that my clothing is getting looser is simply an added bonus." |
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