People get very angry at themselves when they make a mistake or they go in the wrong direction to reach their goals. No one could be harder on themselves than I was. I called myself names and thought about my mistakes over and over again until one day I was able to see through the fog of confusion my negativity was causing me. What I came to realize was mind-boggling. In fact I experimented a little and began documenting my findings. Here is what I learned:1. Wrong turns can actually lead to the right direction in a
round-about way. A wrong turn can actually prepare us for our
ultimate goals and the rewards of success.
2, When we find ourselves in the wrong direction, we can stay awhile
and learn new information while we map and chart out a new course
rather than giving up on our goals altogether and complaining that
we've wasted too much time.
When adhered to with a positive attitude, both of the steps above will not only allow us to make the most of whatever happens to us, but they will allow us to gain a wealth of experience in areas we never thought we'd know anything about.
Success is a journey, not a destination. This is why we must all strive to make each step in our lives count. However there is an exception to this truth. When we purposely choose the same wrong directions over and over again that we know will get us absolutely nowhere, we are purposely keeping ourselves from reaching our goals.
This can happen because of addictions for example, or spending most of our time with people who we know will lead us in the wrong direction. If we find ourselves going in circles, it's time to get help from sources that are stronger than we are to help us get back on track. There is no shame in getting help and, in fact, it can be another stop on our map to success.
Here are some affirmations to keep you from never giving up on your goals and to help you use whatever happens in your life to keep you immersed in a sea of motivation throughout your day.
I will keep a positive attitude no matter what to keep myself moving forward. Even when I am unsure of where I am, I am not lost. Instead, I choose to become a trailblazer. The next generation of my family will have access to another route thanks to my resolve to stay the
course and forge a new path.
When I come to a fork in the road I trust my intuition to guide me. Being spontaneous in this way helps me release my inner self and experience success in a new way. Spontaneity gives me freedom.
I will not panic when I miss a turn because I know that I have countless options; I am not limited to only one way. A wrong turn may lead me to find a new way. The opportunity to explore the unknown excites me.
Although it feels daring to get off the fast-paced highway of life and take the scenic route, detours can be worthwhile because they lead me to discover the beautiful things in life that I otherwise may have missed. The road less traveled is filled with the most stunning sights.
Flexibility allows me to prosper despite failure. Being flexible gives me the strength to keep going when I would rather stop.
Watch as these affirmations quickly change your circumstances. The greatest innovators throughout time are their own greatest motivators, so don't wait for someone else to help or encourage you, chart your own path to success.
Margaret Lukasik
Christian Author, Teacher and Life Coach
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