I'm glad you asked that question! The answer isn't really that difficult, but there are specific actions you should know about in order to achieve your goals. I will list each step in order so that you may get the greatest benefit. So don't eliminate any of the steps given.

If you're ready to set yourself up for success, please follow my instructions to develop an optimistic outlook about your goals. Beginning this moment, I would like you to expect the best. You should have a realistic idea for your ultimate goals so that the best case scenario can and will prevail.

If you begin to drift into the "what if" thoughts from time to time, just stop it! That's right! Believe in yourself for a change. Make this a fun experiment by empowering yourself to overcome all negative thoughts. If you catch yourself reverting to doubt, immediately shift
your focus onto something positive.

By taking immediate action, you can overcome feeling intimidated about reaching your ultimate goals. There might be many things holding you back, including the fear of failure, but this powerful action will leave you no time for pessimistic thoughts. You will forge ahead in a positive direction.

Now, this next step may seem a little trite, but do it anyway. Are you ready? Always seek the silver lining. No doubt there will be situations that present challenges to you, but you must believe that everything happens for a reason and that there is a silver lining somewhere in this challenge. Do your best to learn from the situation and then actively seek the best direction forward.

This next step is important. Periodically write down your thoughts. You can certainly benefit from a "brain download" every now and then. As you write, include your fears in order to vent. Take note of your positive thoughts as well. By writing everything down, you'll gain clarity about your goals.

The last step can be difficult for some people, but keep an open mind. Don't waste your time worrying about challenges. If it's difficult for you I understand. I was brought up to believe that only caring people worry. But after I read Philippians 4:6-7 which tells us not to worry about anything, but instead to be thankful, I immediately switched to thankfulness which has consistently brought forth my intended goals.

So don't waste your time worrying about the challenges at hand or ahead. Once you realize that worrying serves no good purpose, you'll be better able to let it go. Chances are things will work out for the best. You need to believe this in order to achieve an optimistic attitude.

Realism will tell you that there is the possibility of failure. While that may be true, you shouldn't focus on it. Worrying about failure will not make it any easier to endure if it happens, and it can even cause you to attract that failure to you! Worrying only hurts you in the present moment and keeps you from taking the positive action that can bring your goals to fruition.

Allow yourself the luxury of painless living while you prove that optimism indeed brings great surprises and success.

Margaret Lukasik
Christian Author, Teacher and Life Coach
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