I hear people talk of falling out of love. My friend if that happens you
were never in love to start with, merely in lust. And yes the lust can go on
for years until the next better or bigger one comes along.True love only grows deeper and stronger with time. It doesn't matter to
the two in love what any one else thinks for their opinion is all that counts
as it should. Love is truly blind and it isn't up to us to attempt to tell
them how it really is for all we see is our own perceptions and they mean
nothing to anyone but us.
I often wonder why it is when two people are happy with one another there
are always people trying split them up instead of just being happy for them.
Falling out of love I believe is just an excuse to spread ones net farther
and to experience more. Be honest and say there are others I want to
experience before I settle down to just one.
Love to me is special. I have really only experienced once in my entire 65
almost 66 years to one person that even to this day I have been faithful to,
even though they have not been and that doesn't matter for it isn't any of
my business.
You see I believe that in any relationship is a three sided affair for there
are the two in the relationship and there is the relationship itself. When
the two of you are together within the relationship that is all that matters.
However, when you are apart what each of you do is your business and not
that of the other. We can drive ourselves crazy worrying about what our
partners are doing when all we should be doing is loving them and believing in them
for we can't control them anyway.
Have I always thought this way? Of course not, one is allowed to grow and
learn from our past actions.
I am a romantic soul that most of my life I have been in love with love or
the idea of love. The one person I truly loved was on the rebound and I was
merely a bridge to the rest of her life.
I feel happy that I had the few years I had. As they say better to love and
lose than to never love at all. But if we loved, truly loved did we lose I
think not.
Also being a Texan I know that when you get thrown you have to get up and
get back in the saddle and one of these days when the right saddle comes along
that is exactly what I will do.
This time my saddle will not be all flash and beauty for with experience you
learn to look beneath the flash and beauty and know that attractiveness and
utility are more important.
Saddles get more comfortable with use and as you get to know the strong
points and weaknesses one learns the best way to get the most from it.
One must treat their saddle with care and always take care of it and never
ever mistreat it.
I do know that I love you and Believe inYOU
Blessings and happy holidays
Rev. Isaac
of
the Angelic Messenger Circle
http://www.wisaac3rd.com wisaac3rd@aol.com
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