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I noticed something as I was reading someone else's blog. This person came on as if they were the expert of all experts. Which is ok for that is their style.
I want it to be clear when I write it is my opinion. It is one way to see the world. It is my thoughts after 65 years of walking this earth making about every mistake a man can make and leaning from my misadventures.
When you read my writing or anyone else's for that matter, please do it with your mind in engaged. Read everything in thinking mode. If you do not have what you want in life, please do your research to find what you do want.
Then with research accomplished begin to move forward. If anyone tells you theirs is the only way to do anything run for the hills and do it now. There are many Paths to get to anywhere you wish to go. There is no One Path to Heaven, there is no way to find a spouse or to meditate, to invest your money.
Let no one play the fear, blame and shame game on you to get you to do things their way. There is only one way for anyone and that is their way.
Research, explore, investigate, study. Take a little from here, a little from there and don't forget to go over there for some. What I am saying is do your homework. Be diverse in your life.
Practice alchemy by adding a little spice to your life with a dash of adventure, a pinch of excitement, a little quiet alone , time of meditation, a period of partying with your complete circle of friends, a night out with the guys or girls.
Take and consciously mold your life. Plan it. Hold it in your hands and look at it. Is it what you want or is it a little rough over here, out of shape there. Shape it, smooth it out until it is what you want.
Remember this though. As you change the situation around you will change and the things and people will either change with you or leave. So as you are changing expect the situation and people around you to change. Perhaps your, job, your friends, your home, yes maybe even your companion or spouse. One person can not change with out those around them changing also.
Remember also that the only constant in life is change. We either change or get left behind. If our companion is changing then we have to remember they or growing and if we do not grow with them we are left behind.
It is no ones fault foe maybe one is comfortable and the other isn't. There are times we have to move out of our comfort zone to retain that which we desire.
I remember one time my family wanted horses. Well, to provide them for my family I had to move way out of my comfort zone for a period of time. Shoveling manure, carrying hay, repair barn and corral. Buying tack and horses, horse trailer, I really could have cared less, but it is what the wife and family wanted and so I moved out of my comfort zone to give them what they wanted.
There came a time later I didn't move out of my comfort zone voluntarily and was eventually thrown out of it forcibly.
I have never been one to embrace change, much like you. I now how ever see the need to do so when necessary. It is a matter of becoming aware to those around you and to their needs and requirements. Also to our own needs.
I am in a time of knowing a change is needed. I am comfortable with my life to a point yet I find that more and more I am wanting to bring a companion into my life.
If I do that will totally change my life as it is now. I am looking at my life and see where a companion can or will fit in. I find that maybe I do not want a full time companion, but maybe one I can pick up the phone and talk to or email or maybe spend an evening or night with, or even a week end.
Is that possible. I don't know so I procrastinate about doing it. Although I am looking around at the ladies I know with a new eye and seeing what the talent pool looks at and while there are a few possible candidates I think I shall cast my net further.
I am using the above to illustrate that everyone finds themselves in a position to move ahead and grow or to stagnate and die. For if we aren't growing we are in fact dying. There is no standing still.
Step one: Alerting the Universe of your Intention. Universe I intend to bring an attractive, strong, intelligent, secure, lady into my life as a life companion. Thank you for allowing this to happen and I give thanks for her even now as she enters my life with grace and ease. Thank your for doing it and it is done and so it is and so it is.
I will keep you posted. Blessings, Rev. Isaac Of Wisaace3rd.com
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