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Using the Law of Attraction to change the way you look at yourself and the people in your life is a powerful technique to attract your perfect partner. But, what will happen when your perfect partner arrives, looking for you? The question you have to answer if you want to find and keep the intimate relationship the Universe will send you is, "Do you have room in your life for a new person?" Besides needing to make room in your closet, adding a new person in your life will require changes in your daily routine that might cause some stress before you find a comfortable new routine. If you've been looking for a life partner for a while, some of your routines and activities might be rigid enough to make adjusting to a new set of routines a stressful problem. In order to make a comfortable transition, you can start making ample room for your new relationship right now, before the Law of Attraction fills your wish list. There's three major areas of concern that can be adjusted before they become problems and create distress in your new relationship. ==>Do you have time for a committed relationship in your daily schedule? When the Law of Attraction sends your perfect partner, the thrill of it all will tend to take over your entire life for a while. You will be so much in love that you will drop everything to enjoy the new sensations and deep feelings that are filling up all the empty places you've felt for a long time. While this might be considered normal with new lovers, it can be disastrous to the rest of your life. Before you get so entangled in the abundance of love the Law of Attraction sends you that you ignore life's necessities, make adjustments in your schedule that will allow you to enjoy your new life to the fullest. Maintain contacts with your family and friends. Do not neglect your job. What you can do, however is decide which activities you use to just fill up your free time so you are not alone 24/7 on evenings and weekends. Keep the ones important to you, but remove the ones that are not. If you don't have time to spend exploring the pleasures your new relationship and creating new activities to enjoy together, neither one of you will be happy together. ==>Are you making room for your new partner in your home? Take a look around your home and see if there actually is room for someone else in your life. New relationships come with furniture, clothing, books and a whole list of possessions that will need space. Can you provide the space needed to make your partner comfortable? Create the space before the Law of Attraction fills it for you. ==>Are you emotionally ready to accept your perfect partner in your life? Emotional acceptance will require you to clean up your own fears and put away negative memories of past relationships that fell apart. If you don't, the Universe will send you more of the same instead of a perfect partner. You can do this with positive affirmations and clear visualizations, which send your exact message to the Law of Attraction. It's one thing to create emotional space in your life for an intimate relationship and quite another when your dream partner turns up with a U-Haul and a pet dog. While you are waiting for your perfect partner to appear on the wings of the Law of Attraction, make room physically in your life and in your heart. Sharing you life with another requires openness, honesty and intimate communication. http://www.robinskeen.com |