With the frenetic pace of most lives over the last couple of decades, you probably were too involved in everyday problems to notice the arrival of your "Perfect Partner" and let the answer to your desires pass on by.

It's never too late to change all that and send a new focused signal to the Universe that will get a return to match your vision of your perfect partner. Here's how to do that.

The first thing you have to do is be happy with yourself and feel like a whole person. When you rely on another person to make you feel complete, it will never happen. When you have changed your attitude and moved past your previous fears and feelings of not being worthy of a satisfying intimate relationship, you will be ready to attract your perfect partner.

If you haven't moved on yet, spend some time sending gratitude for what you already have to the Universe, practicing positive affirmations and just believing that you deserve loving intimacy.

Before your dream relationship can even start you have to decide in detail exactly what traits you want your partner to have. The more specific you can be, the better chance you have of manifesting the perfect person to fill your dreams. Let's make a list of the qualities you want.

Get a piece of paper and write down these questions, leaving enough room between them to note specific traits:

>> What do you imagine your partner will look like?

>> What type of personality will your future mate have?

>> Will your partner have spiritual beliefs? If yes, what will they be?

>> Does he or she have future ambitions? What are they?

>> What activities do you imagine the two of you will enjoy?

Be as detailed as you can be. Leave nothing out that's important to you. When you are finished, read over your list to make sure you covered everything you want in the "Perfect Partner" for you.

Go back over the list and circle any qualities or traits that YOU have.

Now ask yourself these questions. Will your partner and you have the same spiritual beliefs? Do you have the same type of personality? Are your ambitions the same or close to it?

Notice how many traits you have and compare that number with the number that you DO NOT share with the partner you are trying to attract. With that comparison in mind, do you think the person you described in your list IS the perfect person for you? Do you think you would be the perfect person for the partner you described?

You and your partner would be two separate people with differences. That is to be expected. If the differences are many and you see that you would have very little in common with your dream partner, what you have been dreaming about is probably not realistic.

You don't have to throw out your dream or burn your list. Note the traits and qualities on your list that are important to you and do not match those you already have. Write them down on another piece of paper or highlight them with a marker.

Start developing those traits missing from your compatibility list. Don't go at it with a vengeance. Be easy. Start visualizing yourself with the quality you want to develop, like you already have developed it. See yourself as a person with that quality. Recite affirmations, beginning with "I am..."

When your perfect partner finds you, both of you will recognize the other by the matching feelings and energy being exchanged. When YOU are the perfect partner for the partner you want, the attraction will be magic.

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