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Have you ever wondered why nothing is going your way when you're positive that you're doing everything right? Believe me, most of us have wondered about that more than once and have been just as frustrated as you are.
There's a reason you can't get things moving in the right direction no matter what you do. Most likely you've been sidetracked by your own negative thoughts and ingrained habits and simply derailed the Law of Attraction.
When that happens, you will have limited or no success with the Law of Attraction. You will just keep spinning in your own spiral of discontent until you can recognize the three most common mistakes people make.
Mistake #1 is a lack of belief in your ability to marshal the universal vibrations that will move you to where you want to be.
When you start doubting and disbelieving that you deserve to have the best there is, you are actually attracting negativity and surrounding yourself with disappointment.
The actual strength of the Law of Attraction comes from the incredible power of a simple and unshakeable belief that you deserve to have the life you dream of and that you WILL have it. If you cannot believe that, it will never happen. You really are WHAT you think and definitely are WHAT you believe.
All of us send vibrations out to the people around us and to the universe all day long. Those vibrations you send out set up what comes back to you from the universe. When doubts start coloring that simple, unshakeable belief, you are sending mixed signals to the universe and saying, "I want this, but I don't believe I deserve to have it."
Believing in the Law of Attraction is difficult when you first set out to change your life for the better. It goes against everything you've been raised to believe in...you can't see it, you can't clean it or hang it in the closet. What you are being asked to do is to create a new life by changing what you believe about yourself.
It is easy to believe that this process is a pipe dream because you haven't seen any proof of it. Well, you are living proof right now of the power of the Law of Attraction. Think about it! You are living the life you arranged with your less than positive thoughts and expectations that you've been thinking your entire life.
Don't believe that? Answer this: Has anything negative ever happened to you that DIDN'T surprise you? Weren't you prepared to accept less than you really wanted because "it always happens like that." Did you know that you can actually CHOOSE to believe something different about your life?
Mistake #2 is to give in to frustration and impatience when nothing is working out like you wanted it to.
When that happens, your focus is centered on what you don't want or don't have. Not exactly positive!
When you do this, you are tuning the vibrations you are sending out to the universe to the wrong frequency and getting back exactly what you are broadcasting. You have to just stop and change your thoughts to positive ones. Don't know how to do that?
Try this: Think, "Stop! I choose to accept only positive vibrations from the Universe!" That's just an example. Use your own words. At first it might seem silly to you, but practice will slowly clean out your mental and emotional closet of bad dreams.
Mistake #3 is to suppress your natural set of emotions or the real passion you feel about the good things you have in your life.
When you run through life on autopilot, you are just reacting to whatever is in front of you and not noticing the truly beautiful surroundings all around you. When you take a "beauty break, a "joy break" or a "love break" in your day, you are choosing YOUR own emotional state and taking control of your own feelings. And that will attract more things to feel passionate about. Try it! You'll like it.
Finally, when you are changing your attitudes and emotional responses to negative influences in your everyday life, it might help to think about this final suggestion:
"The chaos in your life might just be the Universe's attempt to clear the way for the positive results you want...cosmic housecleaning." |
Thank you,this was a helpful article. I am really trying hard to break my terrible habits with money and all of your three points hit home with me.
Thanks.