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So you've been doing everything you believe you should be doing, the daily affirmations, taking the proper rest and exercise both mental and physical combined with all the work needed in pursuit of your goals and yet you find yourself stuck in the same gear not reaping the rewards of what you perceive to be your labour and just before the frustration can set in another unforeseen circumstance happens that might throw you off the plans that you did make, so what do you make of it and what do you do about it.Well believe it or not you're in a great position right now because opportunities always present themselves to the living and if you can read this then you're alive and hopefully kicking so the first requirement is life which you already have in abundance therefore you can concentrate your efforts on the achievement that you desire. Now just because things are not going the way that you feel they should be is no reason to give up your pursuit of a better life, just because the results are not happening for you at the moment doesn't mean it won't come good eventually, remember we're not usually in control of the when more the how's but just know that the desired outcome will happen of it's own accord if your efforts match the specific criteria required to obtain the object of your desire, allow good old father time and mother nature to work their magic in their own sweet way and in their own sweet time, it will happen maybe not necessarily at the time you want it to happen but just when it's most needed BOOM here it comes. So more than anything else you need to make sure you're ready, that's the key to success, there is an element that is known the world over to the uninformed and the superstitious as Luck or Chance but this is nothing more than being prepared, it's been said that luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity and opportunity is everywhere in abundance all you need to do is to find it. Sounds like it's easy doesn't it, just find where the opportunity is then dive in and hey presto you're a success, well no I'm not suggesting that it is that easy though there is nothing to say it won't be but I would hazard a guess there's gonna be a whole heap more that you'll have to do before the success you wish to enjoy is yours. As for those unforeseen circumstances well life is filled with unforeseen circumstances it's not about the things that happen but the way you deal with things because if nothing ever happened to you I would have to say that you're either dead or in a coma because things always happen, that is what makes life interesting, the whole uncertainty of what's around the corner can be exhilarating if you look at it from a particular angle, like I said it's about how you deal with it. Therefore don't worry that in the midst of working towards your goal you've lost a job as around the corner is something better, or suddenly there is an unexpected mouth to feed you'll find the extra food, or that person who you thought was going to be with you till the end suddenly ups and leaves you high and dry they weren't the one for you, essentially pay no mind to the changes that occur on the journey as change is inevitable and can be a good thing if you allow it to be. Carl Mason is a Mentor, Coach/Life Consultant and CEO of On Point Solutions. A passionate and dedicated individual with a commitment to promote the means by which you can live The Life of your Dreams and BE the person who you WILL to be. |