At this point a female colleague was walking by whose opinion we both
hold in the highest regard so we decided to ask the obvious question
of why this almost always seems to be the case, and her answer was
honest and revealing, her simple explanation was this "When a man
becomes involved with a woman he starts to ooze confidence, and it's
very sexy".

Now you know me, I'm an avid student of natural laws such as
abundance, attraction and all the rest of the insights that we've all
heard about but I had to think on that statement for a moment because
it showed me once again how your mind set will directly effect your
entire life and that it pays to have a positive attitude of mind
regardless of the situations that are happening in your own life at
any given moment in time.

But back to the subject at hand, you know that it's been said a
thousand times or more that you first need to have an attitude of mind
where the things you desire are already in your possession or to put
it another way you need to mentally Be before you can Do.  It makes
perfect sense when you stop to think about it, I mean if you want to
play football and the position you wish to play is that of a striker
then you need to think like a striker, trying to occupy the role of a
striker while thinking like a defender will not produce the best
results, you have to adjust your thinking to perform your role to the
best of your ability if you wish to be successful in all walks of
life.

So then how do you acquire this mental mindset which allows you to get
the most out of any given situation in life, well I could tell you all
kinds of nonsense and give you lots of phoney advice which sounds good
but in no way is going to help you to achieve your goals, or
alternatively I can offer you the only wisdom that I have on this
subject which is this, concentrate on what you want, then think about
it again, and over and over until the idea becomes a habit, in your
mind become that person and start to see yourself doing all the things
that person would do, begin to revel in the thought of who that person
is, the way they get things done and how people just naturally want to
do things for and with them.

As you start to think of this person notice how you suddenly act as if
you are indeed the character you have created, observe the confidence
you possess the air of authority with which you carry yourself, and
once again take it all in and get a sense of just how good it feels to
be the person you've always wanted to be and just live it like it was
reality and watch as you bend and shape your own perception of reality
to exactly what you wish your reality to be. It's not a trick it's
just a method, a proven tried and trusted system that works as long as
you apply it without fail and really trust in this simple method to
work for you. It will work the same for you just as it has for many
before you and will continue to work as long as there are people on
this earth.

The one thing however that I advise you not to do is to Try, whatever
you do never try to do something, either Do it or Don't do it but
never try to do something as there's a strong possibility that after a
couple of attempts trying if things are not going well you'll be more
inclined to give up as opposed to whey your doing something you just
keep on doing what your doing, it might seem like I'm being picky but
trust me on this one internal communication is a funny thing and can
play tricks on.  You may not be doing something very well but at least
you are doing it and practice makes perfect so keep at it show some
character and keep that positive mindset and watch as your dreams
become reality and who knows what and who will be attracted to you or
where your dreams can take you.

Carl Mason is a Mentor, Coach/Life Consultant and CEO of On Point
Solutions. A passionate and dedicated individual with a commitment to
promote the means by which you can live The Life of your Dreams and BE
the person who you WILL to be.