Your fears and doubts have been supervising you and banning you for years. For just a moment, suspend and ban those fears. For one moment, let your creativity soar without question.

If you could be or do anything in your life, and if you had unlimited funds, and if there were no limitations, how would you spend your time? My perfect life would include:

What would you do, if you had only three years to live?

What would my life be like if I did these things? How would it change?

Now, turn your dreams into real life goals. Make a commitment to work towards those goals.

1.Write down your dream-turned goals.

2.Which of these things could you begin to do now?

Set your goals high!

Immediate Goals: (Today, tomorrow, this week) One Year Goals:

Five year Goals:

Life Time Goals:

Remember, just because you categorize a goal into a certain time frame, doesn’t mean that’s when it will necessarily happen. For instance, I’ve created five-year goals, and just by the simple act of knowing I’d have that, I was able to see it materialize in months. On the flip side, don’t get discouraged if your short-term goal doesn’t happen immediately. Perhaps there’s another goal you need to accomplish first. Just stay focused, and know that someday all of your dreams will come true.

Use this same strategy to attract the relationship you desire. Create two lists. On the first list, create everything you want in a partner. What color eyes do they have? What color is their hair? What body type do they have? What types of clothes do they wear? What do they do for a living? What type of car do they drive? What is their life’s purpose? What religion do they practice? How do they smell?

In the second list, describe your ideal relationship. How do you communicate with one another? What activities you do together? Where do you go on vacations? What type of home will you live in together? What things can you create with one another? How do your life’s purposes mesh?

What could I do today to attract my partner? What places could I go that I might find this person?

Conclusion: What are you waiting for?

What do you need to make your miracle happen? Do you need to get sick or have the sky fall on you? No. You simply need to decide to make it happen. You’ve read “the secret” interwoven into Dr. Joan’s life above. What else do you need? I’ll tell you. The true secret is that self-actualization is a journey of a thousand steps. You can only start that journey one stride at a time. Get off that bench and start walking! Good luck!